Father - Son Talk!

Young Son: "Is it true, Dad? 
I heard that in some parts
Asia a man doesn't know 

his wife until he marries her?

Dad: "That happens in most 
countries, son."


Ron Hutchcraft said...

A lot of times when I'm introducing my younger son, I'll call him "my baby"
which is a little ridiculous if you look at the two of us. The boy I used to
pick up is now the man who picks me up. And that's pretty embarrassing.
He will sometimes greet me at an airport or some public place, put his arms
around me and lift me in the air. When I stand next to this moose in our
family, I ask myself, "How did this child of mine ever get so much bigger
than I am?" A while back, a disturbing thought occurred to me, maybe this
isn't just about my son growing. Could it be that I'm shrinking? I'm sure I
used to measure at least 5'8", but the doctor says I'm 5'7" now. Hello!

Where did that inch go? Don't you dare tell me it went to my waist either.
Actually, I understand as you keep having birthdays that your tissues and
vertebrae begin to sort of scrunch together and you start to shrink. That is
a pretty depressing thought when you don't have that much to start with in
the first place! But shrinking as you get older may not be all bad.

In a sense, I actually hope I'm shrinking as I get older in the way John the
Baptist described when he was talking about his relationship with Jesus. In
our word for today from the Word of God, John 3:30 he says, "He must
become greater; I must become less." John's goal was to shrink.

I think I understand that better now than I used to. John wanted his life
and his work to involve an increasingly smaller percentage of him and a
progressively larger percentage of Jesus. In the strange economics of
discipleship, the less there is of you in what you do, the greater you

This is all especially difficult for those of us who want to be "make it
happen" people. There are two lifelong battlefields where we wrestle with
the Lord over the "me first" thing. One is the area of control. We don't
mind giving the Lord time, or money, or service. We give Him loyalty and
hard work. We'll give Him anything but control. I want to maintain control
of the areas that really matter to me: maybe my career, or my family, my
money. I want to control my ministry, or my image, my talent, my plans.

For most of us, there is a major control issue that lets the control of Jesus
Christ go only so far. And there can never be less of me and more of Jesus
until that issue is settled, with my white flag. And maybe you've been
through just enough pain, just enough humbling that you are ready to
surrender what you have held tightly for so long and tried to control.

The other battlefield where our ego wrestles against the takeover of Jesus
is the issue of credit. We really want the credit for what we do. We want to
be noticed, appreciated, promoted, and admired. Recognition is important to
us. But God has said, "I am the Lord; that is My name; I will not give My
glory to another." We can't know the power of having Jesus really in charge
until we are ready to say, "I don't care if my name's not on it. I don't care
who knows. I am here to get people to think about You, Jesus, not me."

If you can surrender the control and the credit, you are ready for the
incredible shrinking you. Our lives become more incredible than we could
ever have imagined as our ego and our interests and our self-reliance begin
to recede and our lives become more about Jesus than ever before.

Frankly, I'm looking forward to the years ahead, and to shrinking more and
more, so my life can be bigger than ever as I make more and more room for

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Leroy Jethro Gibbs said...

Jolene had been wanting new kitchen cabinets for a long time,
but her husband insisted they were an extravagance.

Then she went to visit her Mother for two weeks, and when
she returned, she was overjoyed to find that her husband had
surprised her by installing beautiful new cabinets.

A few days later a neighbor came over to visit and after
admiring the new cabinets, the neighbor added, "All of us
were so glad that the fire your husband had while you were
gone was confined to the kitchen."

Paris Hilton said...

Our local paper runs a popular column called "10 Questions"
that spotlights people who live in our community.

In addition to the usual inquiries about occupation and age,
people are asked the questions that give a snapshot look of
their personalities.

Recently one woman was asked, "What's the 'strangest' thing
you ever bought?"

She answered, "Dog toothpaste."

Next question, "What is the 'most common' thing people say
to you?"

Her answer: "Where did you get such white teeth?"

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